In my last
post I mentioned two favorite organizing people. The first is Donna Smallin Kuper.
finished my stone walkway |
Who's the
other person? Matt Paxton
Hoarders anyone? It was the freakiest, coolest
show. Aired on A&E, it chronicled the attempt to help hoarders when they
were against the wall due to whatever—landlords, city ordinances, health,
whoever. And the weird
thing is, they weren’t all crazy cat people—though many had a few hundred cats.
They were just
people. Most were people who had bad stuff happen to trigger the hoarding.
Matt (and
others) cleaned out their houses but the crew also helped sort their lives as
well. They cleaned but the hoarder had to make the decision to let things go.
It was the only way to break the cycle.
I like Matt
because he’s real. He knows what needing help is all about. He’s a good
cleaner, but he's also got his own interesting story of addiction. As he
alludes to, all he’s done is trade one addiction for another, but at least this one doesn't get his kneecaps broken intentionally.
Another sad
lesson from this is many of the people who hoard have others in their lives—family
and friends who suspected but didn’t jump in. Oh, that’s not an indictment. It’s
just a comment. I always wondered “how did they let it get that far?”
So, what’s
this all about?
I find it
ironic that Matt’s who I wanted to post about on Wednesday and now I find myself
on Sunday evening still trying to get this posted. I'm so far behind!
It’s about perseverance
and fortitude to make the changes you want. It doesn’t matter how far you’ve
gotten into the rut. You can do it!
Change means sacrifice and letting go. On the show some people just couldn’t do it. But some were able to change their homes and their lives.
Change means sacrifice and letting go. On the show some people just couldn’t do it. But some were able to change their homes and their lives.
So, even
though I’m late, I’m still going to hang in there. I’m still posting this.
Lessons from Matt and Hoarders:
(don’t try to
Google them—I’m making them up)
1. Don't forget your friends and family--especially those who live alone. 2. Be patient with yourself. Nobody's perfect and on time every time.
3. We all need a little help from our friends sometimes.
4. But sometimes we will be alone, no matter who we call.
cleaned out my truck-- does anybody know this pony? |
6. There are ordinances on the number of cats you can have.
7. Nobody allows coyotes to be kept. (well, that was my discovery)
Lasting change takes time.
The two questions we have to ask ourselves:
1. Do I want to change?
2. What am I willing to let go of for it?
p.s.--my house
is not a hoarder house, but Clean Sweep
would have fun in it.
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